One More Reason to Listen to Worship Music

I never set out to memorize worship songs. It was just the natural byproduct of growing up in a Christian family. Everywhere our family went, there was worship music playing. At Sunday morning services; at Sunday evening services; at youth group; at Bible Camp; in the car. There was no escaping it, and at some point, my brain just started to retain all of the different melodies and lyrics.

I didn’t ever give much thought to the benefit of knowing so many worship songs. It wasn’t until a couple of years ago that I began to recognize what a great privilege it was. It started with my first son being born.

He was the first baby I had ever had anything to do with. From day one I felt lost as to how to interact with him. I didn’t know how to talk to him. I didn’t have too many ideas about how to comfort him. But I knew how to sing (though not well), so I did that. Night after night I would sit in a lazy boy and sing to him until he fell asleep. It didn’t feel right to sing Blink 182 songs to him, or Linkin Park’s greatest hits, so I sang songs from that worship catalogue stored away in the back of my mind.

As he turned from baby to a toddler, he eventually started asking me to sing certain worship songs again. He had his favourites. Then as he went from a toddler to a little boy, he started memorizing the songs himself and singing them back to me. I will be honest, I am not sure that there have been any greater moments for me as a dad, than hearing my four-year-old son sing about the grace of Jesus, the love of God and the wonder of the cross.

These days he regularly asks me to sing to him new songs. So, I have become far more intentional about listening to more worship music and worshipping along with it. The result is that I am worshipping God in private more than I ever have and I am being to bring more Christ-centred songs to my son for him to learn.

I have never been more thankful to have had a childhood that was saturated with worship music. Those songs, and all of the new ones getting stored, are gospel treasures in my mind that I can grab at any point, for any occasion, even for bedtime routines.

"Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God" (Colossians 3:16).

Where do I go to find rest?

I amaze myself sometimes, at just how irrational I can be.

Life can feel so extremely busy these days, with a family, a congregation, a home, a yard, vehicles, pets and so forth. I find myself regularly seeking out moments of rest; little chances in the day or in the week to catch my breath and to feel some level of emotional and spiritual refreshment. More times than not, I seek this rest in things like movies, news websites and skateboarding. The reason I seek rest in these things is because I have this unspoken belief that rest will come through more “me time;” through forgetting about my responsibilities and tasks and burdens for a few moments and focusing on the things that I enjoy and that I can get lost in; things like movies, news articles, skateboarding, etc. The funny thing is though, very often I come out of those “restful” activities, more fatigued than before, or at least no more rested.

Now at the same time, I continually come to passages in scripture that speak about rest, and they always point in the same direction, and it is not more “me time.”

Psalm 23.2 - He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul.”

Matthew 11:28 – “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”

Hebrews 4:10 – “For whoever has entered God’s rest has also rested from his works as God did from his.”

In these passages and so many more, God is the source of the rest. He is the one producing it and the one inviting us to receive it.

The Irrationality Part

Here is the irrationality of it all. I know that the things I choose to find rest in won’t every give me the kind of rest I am seeking from them. I know it deep it down. I also know that God can and will give me the kind of rest that I need. And yet, still I continue to choose the one at the expense of the other.

Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with enjoying enjoyable and relaxing activities. God gave us all of them, and I am sure thankful that He did! But the fact of the matter is that true rest will never come from those things. It will come from Him. It will come from Him as we come to Him and, and whether for the first time or the five hundredth time, we place our trust in Him. It will come as we, by faith, through prayer, in worship and with Scripture, throw all of our worries, anxieties, doubts, sins, pressures and ambitions before Him. That is where rest lives! In the arms of an all-loving, all-knowing, all-powerful Father.

And it makes sense doesn’t it, that rest would be found in Him alone? In dictionary terms to rest is to cease all movement; to make no effort; to be still. It is to be relieved of all of the weight that we are carrying. Well, God is the only one who can fully support us, the only whose shoulders are able to bear the weight that we carry and so to relieve us of everything we’ve been carrying. He is the only one strong enough to carry us, so that we can cease moving; so that we can feel light, as if we are being carried on wings of eagles. No relationship can do that. No sport can do that. No sit back and relax type of entertainment can do that.

The Plan

To be honest, I plan to continue watching films, reading the news and riding a skateboard, as time allows. But by God’s grace, I will stop expecting those things to be the answer to my stress and fatigue, and will stop doing those things at the expense of time spent with Jesus. At the risk of sounding cliche, I plan to seek and find my rest this week not in more “me time,” but in more “He time.”

Book Recommendations: 4 Books on the Church

There are lots of good books on the structure, purpose and practice of the church. Here are four of my favourites.

1. Reaching Out Without Dumbing Down: A Theology of Worship for This Urgent Time by Marva J. Dawn.

This book is getting old, but it has aged well. Dawn’s insights into solving our worship wars, and her sketch of biblical, corporate worship is just as relevant today as it was in 1995. Perhaps the strongest part of Reaching Out is her discussion of music, preaching, Scripture readings, rituals, liturgies, art and other worship practices and her advice for making these practices God glorifying and people edifying.

2. In Good Company: The Church as Polis by Stanley Hauerwas.

A heavier read than Dawn’s book, but no less excellent if one is up for the task. Hauerwas brilliantly and biblically explores the beliefs and practices that are a part of the Church’s identity, and that serve to separate her from the world. A warning to the reader, Hauerwas examines the protestant and the catholic church in his study.

3. A Better Way: Rediscovering the Drama of God-Centered Worship by Michael Horton

Horton never disappoints in his unrelenting concentration on Scripture. In A Better Way Horton makes the biblical case that the Preached Word and the administered sacraments are the means of Grace which God has chosen to use to save the His people. An especially important read for everyone who belongs to the church and to a church. Even if you are not reformed, as Horton is, I am sure you will find his explanation of biblical worship persuasive, inspiring and applicable.

4. Christ, Baptism and The Lord's Supper: Recovering the Sacraments For Evangelical Worship by Leanord J. Vander Zee

The title says it all. Vander Nee takes on baptism and the Lord’s supper, attempting to explain the deeper biblical meaning of both. This book is a gift to the church, since most people in the church, pastors included, seem to misunderstand or at least lack an in-depth understanding of these practices. As a pastor himself, Vander Zee carefully guides pastors and lay people into a fuller and more Christ centred view of worship.